What if failure is actually the point?


On Sunday, I shared a personal story about how easy it is to lose yourself when you feel constantly evaluated. The truth is, pressure doesn’t just impact athletes — it impacts all of us when our worth starts getting tied to outcomes.

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A lot of young athletes are terrified of failing.

ot because they’re weak.

Because many environments make failure feel unsafe.

I recently sat down with basketball coach and player development specialist Kerri Kuzbyt from Transforming Basketball to discuss:

🎯 Why great athletes become elite problem solvers
🎯 How pressure impacts decision-making
🎯 Why emotional regulation is a trainable skill
🎯 The role of identity in confidence
🎯 Why the best coaches create environments where athletes can fail safely

One of my favorite lines from the conversation:

“Emotions are a constraint.”

If young athletes never learn how to navigate pressure, mistakes, frustration, and uncertainty…

Their skill eventually gets trapped by their emotions.

This was one of my favorite conversations I’ve had on the podcast because it connected mental performance, coaching, identity, and skill development in a really powerful way.

🎧 Listen to Episode 93 of The Freshman Foundation® Podcast here

Or, wherever you get your podcasts.

Thank you for reading (and hopefully, listening),

Mike

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P.S. If your athlete’s skill gets trapped by their emotions under pressure, my free 10-Day “Level Up Your Mental Game” Challenge is a great place to start.

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